I seriously need help.
My 3 y/o boy is such a crybaby. A contrast to his 4y/o sis. Why he became like that? OK.. let’s get down the memory lane. Kakak was inside me when i was happy, tough, who dares make me cross i’m gonna unleash my storm on that person… (err.. i kan storm wannabe.. storm x-men tu la dey! not the 4WD!!). kakak pernah duduk kat rumah babysitter so her biggest fear is being left at someone else’s house. she is so afraid that i’m gonna abandon her. And she can’t stand me raising my voice at her.. she will think that i don’t love her anymore. Other than that, she’s compassionate, understanding, quick learner, ringan tulang.. lipat baju sendiri even masak pun nak tolong gak. Kakak grew up with a complete mum and dad.
Adik was inside me during the dark ages.. the non-stop crying, the feeling of hopelessness, the dangerous state of low self esteem, the turmoil.. dalam pantang, his incessant crying was one of the reasons i experienced post natal depression. Adik was taken care by grandmas and grandpa, never have to experience life at babysitter’s house, but he lived nomad style.. one week with mum, one week with dad, never exactly felt what its like to have mum and dad together. It’s always the three of us since he was a year old. Thus he looked up to us and always want to be a part of us.
He’s adorable.. with dimple and cleft chin and chatterbox mouth. But if you call him handsome he will object.. he said “adik lawa”. Coz umi and kakak lawa so he demand people say him lawa as well. If he gaduh dengan kakak, he’s the one ended up crying altho he’s the one starting the trouble first! Even when kakak ejek pun he will cry! Ngengada btui! Kakak will only cry if adik hits her so hard or if adik says that he didn’t love her.
Last nite i lost my control. He merajuk coz we didn’t want to watch otomen with him. I ignored him and tried to sleep but he threw things at me. At first it was a paper then he picked up topi kakak and try to throw but i scolded him. And there goes his cry at the top of his voice. I hate men crying.. gosh, hate it so much! At first just threaten him with the cane but he didn’t stop so i started caning him. Adala segarit merah.. ish.. i felt so bad.. finally, i lock him out of bedroom for 1 minute then only he stop. But he retaliate by refusing to answer my question whether he wants milk or not.
That does it… i couldn’t stand anymore and i shook him. Suddenly the memory of his incessant crying during confinement came rushing back and i stopped, broke down and cried. I hugged him and he hugged back. Even when he has stopped crying, i couldn’t stopped mine coz i’ve had that memory locked away. When suddenly the door swung open, i need a bit of time to shut it back or at least dealt with that.
His new daddy has highlighted the matter that he doesn’t want adik to become sissy and he doesn’t have much patience. Neither was his real dad though. ~sigh~ . The good thing though, adik’s loyalty always goes to me compared to kakak’s. She’s more a daddy’s girl.
Adik is a collateral damage of my own doing. So please help me how to deal with his attitude. I didn’t see being angry helps much. Being loving pulak will only spoilt him more.
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tokeh, kang konpem balik ngan simami jarum… aku pung nak nengok idung sidai baju dia tu… woo…
27-28dec aku kena temankan laki aku nya reunion so salunya ngan senang ati dia kena freekan diri dia untuk acara aku pulak…
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aku da x wat BD ar.. ang ni keting betui ar batik.. aku wat gerudi lak skrg.. wakakakaka… konpem ke ni wei? pagi petang siang malam? ada sesapa besday bln 12 ke? poyak ooo poyak.. moh ler join.. iman ske ler main dgn abg fik tu… mai ler tido umah ambo byk bilik kosong.. xdak bukan muhrim lagi tu.. pehtu pakat2 ar tulung lipat baju hok 2 bulan x lipat… hekhekhek…
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huh sapa pasan sangat nk jadi aku ha? i got class u knoww… dont ever never dream to be me..
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woih bolian hang punya pasaila aku tingin nk beli oben…ciken pie la, x pie la, apple pie la..semua ado..menchii menchii menchiiiii
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aku kansel la nk mai kl xmas ni.. kang tokeh paksa aku pakai spek mata sambil dia men kibod.. walaupun aku cunss dan seksiss aku tak suka di exploitasi taww..
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haa botui botui.. semalam aku da siap beli aben.. nk celen kuking skil bolian.. hekhekhek..
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alaaa yew… pe salahnyer yewww…. sore yew kan seksissssss…. leh ar bawak lagu seksissss.. tapi ikut cd ar.. aku x reti men lagu seksis.. hekhekhek.. aku reti lagu ‘selamat ari raya.. kepada sedara serta sedari..’ tu jek yg pak aku ajor kecik2 dlu….
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weh korang oder lagu siap2 ar.. leh aku pektis… hahaha semangat siot.. dpt kibodnya 2 minggu lg..
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leeee… blom dapat lagi kibodnya…. yapperdaaa….
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besday aku bolan 3 lee… aku ngaku je besday aku bolan 12 leh tak korang bawak je plejen…. konpem lah bebetui, aku no hal pagi petang siang malam subuh… .. dan leh aku lock taim tu untuk aku… somi aku takleh sibuk nak wat mende lain..
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owh.. ok ar ok ar.. aku mai bawak cikedis jek ar.. aku kan kanak2 ribena lagik.. anak2 yew ols sumer kena panggil ai ahkak tawwwww.. hikhikhik..
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warrrghhhhhhhhh…beta baru bangkit dari beradu…..
hukaloh…ado pulok gebi klon kat sini…awat gebi ? hang dah boli oben ? bagussss….meh la kita pakat bako membako…bako kueh la, bukan bako umah…
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woit ronel mek donel…hang jangan cakap banyak nak bawak cikedis…
memandangkan ko kununnya muda rumaja (nak suh anak2 kitorang panggil ahkak kunun, ptui!) lagi kanak2 riang, hang kena sponsor burger mekdonel berserta McFlurry Oreo dan eskim ceklet…untuk kaum ibu dan anak2 sekali tawwww…
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betui… aku ske big n tasty.. anak-anak aku makan big mac sorang sebijik… french fries aje tak cukup!!
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huar huar huar….eden mmg tongah nausea ni tensen tul laaa….
kojonyo bogolek ateh katei…pulak eden dah boporang dingin lak ngan tokmoh, lg monambah kn kotensenan eden …eii goram botoii…
yg eden geremmm tu adoko patut dio kato eden sengajo tak “jago” nak bagi peknen, eden maleh aa nak cito kek diyo yg batik tu ha yg sobabkan eden terkeno pahnahan petir…..
eden kato kek diyo , kalo mu takmoh anok, mu poei la ikat sendiri, eden mudo laei, eden takmoh ikat, kalo mu ninggai eden tak laku arr takde telur laei…..pepandai nak suwuh org ikat lak, diyo yg nak ikat , poei la ikat sendirikk
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bolian…bolian…mmg lomah lombut, gemalai sungguh toke tu, mcm tak sesuwei gitu nak belly dancing, tokeh tu sesuwei menari tarian melayu , zapin ke macam tiara kek cito PGL tu haaa….
eden nek malu lak sobab eden ni kelamkabut naik bot ekekekeke
seb baik tokeh dah jumper batik duluan hekhekhek…batik tu selow n steady tapi very warming taww, tak la eden raso eden ni ‘warmer than her’ ekekeke
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alahai moyak…esei rindu bona ngan ekau eh…sabo la moyak…esei pon kalau peknen, mak aiii takleh angkat muko langsung, genap2 ompek bulan baru la hokeh, kalau tidak asik muntah ajo…itu yg esei maleh nak peknen, tapi laki esei yg beriyo iyo nak suh peknen…esei suh dio ngandung sendirik baru la dia tawww…
ala cakap la kat tokmoh, kito nok elak2 tapi udah Allah nak kasi rejoki, apo buleh buek, trimo jo Alhamdulillah…
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oho itu mcm yo.. hmmm…
kenduri? hehehe.. tengok la nanti.. nak jemput makcik2 sini tak mau la.. karang ado pula kepoh2 pasal gua mati la gua nanti wakakaka..
bolian buat kuih bahulu,
tapi keras mcm besi,
sampai masa ado la tu,
lepas nikah buat kenduri..
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manader…kita tak penah pon wat kuih bahulu…ala kupi, besa la kutuk2 nih…tak mati la setakat kena laser ngan kitorang…kita baik tawwww
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entah kupi ni… untung-untung ada yg offer adik sendiri… nengok kakak-kakak nya kat sini sumer misali tawww….
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ati bolian, time kasih la , sejuk ati dengor ekao ckp, eden sbnornya mmg maleh nk bawak budak laei…tapi iyolah..mmg rejeki, terimo aje la…
entah apa hikmahnya…think positip aje laa
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eh poyak… tokmoh hang suko sebenonya dapek bebbi tu… org hengat dia mudo… masih beranak kocik… hang tu je makin serabai nak handel anak hampir sengah dozen…
tapi takpo… tukang masak asam pedas hang keliling ghumah ado…
ko citer pasai jumpa-jumpa nih tingat aku taun lepeh ada minah tu mai gumah aku tersengeh-sengeh tak kenaikan diri… peh tu dok hulur tapai kat aku… sib baik aku pandai kaver line… wat-wat kenai.. penat gak ah sengah jam aku berlakon…
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aku kalau tak ingat syusyah peknen ngan syusyah lam pantang… beranak sonang sebab belah perut aje.. dan syusyah jago anak kecik, nak gak aku nambah girl sorang laie… tapi abe gapor tak larat nak bayo insuran…
ekau dah pakai tips fadillah kamsah ke blom? ke taim syiok tak hengat apa-apa…
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kalau dpt girl, kasik aku ek…
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umang ai… banyak nyer oder mek donel.. ni budak nak makan ke maknya yg nak makan??
eceh eceh wat tarian zapin lak ai.. poyak ajo la wei.. lamo bona esei carik kolas nyo x ponah nok jumpo.. cian poyak.. klu lom sangkut leh la ikhtiar.. klu da sangkut nak gado2 laie pasai pa.. Tuhan da nak bagi terimo jo la.. syukurrrrr…
eh x perasan lak mocik bling2 tanyo.. esei jumpo toke sari tu minggu lepaih.. berkonan nengok sarinyo igt nok buek hantaran.. sesambil tu tolong2 juaikan.. esei gomar juai mende esei makai n suko jo..
kupi apo lak ai malu2 nk jomput kami.. bukan keno hampar red kapet pong… weh.. esei ghaso2 esei igt la ekau hok mano satu.. esei igt laie ado satu maso tu pak esei dok ghoyak beboih2 mulut kat sorg mamat ni pehtu tetiba mamat tu leh tanyo lak “tokeh” mano.. pehtu mamat tu tesongeh2 macam kenai esei yo.. ekau ko tu?
batik.. ni esei konai2 dgn ang ni, xmo rekemen adik laki ko? adik ipar single mingle pun okehhhh… hikhikhik…
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sapo minachi tu batik??? minik muniandy ko?
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apa yilek, amma yilek, punne yilek..pati yareke…
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adik laki aku yg masih single ada 3… umuq 27, 24 ngan 15… yg mana adik ko nak?
tak pun nanti ahh… aku plan nak buat makan-makan besau bulan 2 atau 3 nanti… adik badik sumer ada.. ko bawak le sesape yg ko nak kenenkan tu….
kupi juai mahei.. melopeh le..
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adik aku yg 27 tu .. katanya nak kawen taun depan gak.. tak kira ngan sape pun… yg 24 baru keje lepas grad dari uia kos mekatronik.. yg 15 taun baru abih upsr.. heh heh…
aku ni sibuk promo adik pulak.. apala ko ni tokeh!!
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adik laki abe gapor pun single… 29 taun..
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weh.. blog ko dah masuk carta top ten… mekacey kat aku taww…
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fuyooo… maceh maceh maceh ahkak batekkk… apelak aku nk rekemen kat owang… tuk aku ler.. ngeh ngeh ngeh…
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adik aku baru lepas beranak…so off the market, sorry ye kupi heh heh….
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poyak..lama tak muncul..dah abis ke mabuk darat tu… alah rezeki sumpahan 9 bulan 10 hari tu…hepi..hepi je la…semuga yg lahir tu nnti…anak yg beriman
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leee tuk ekau…. mana ko nak campak abe jelai tuh..
poyak.. masa aku pegnen tu ari, aku rasa cam tu gak.. serik.. tapi la ni rase nak lagi le pulak.. kang oghang hengat aku mudo laie.. leh branak kecik.. hoho… tulang aku dah start mereput ni org tak nampok..
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jap jap yer…batik ooooo rupanya kesah ekau ngan poyak la yg aku baca kat blog dolu tuh…yg kesah pegi open haus tapi tak kenal tuan umah…tuan umah pon buat tatau jugak sebab ingat tah sesape jer yg maii….
oooo gitu kesahnya….(tiru stail che bedah dan makcik mary bergosip)
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heh heh,… dah mocik bling bling pecahkan lobang idung aku, … aku bukak le citer tu lagi… kalau idak, idak le aku sebut pasai tu lagi …
minggu ni aku balik kampong nak singgah rumah poyak…
don weri poyak.. aku tapau pisang goreng sebab aku tau ko tak pandai masak..
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aku nak citer gak ni…. (sambil ngunyah chewing gum sebab aku tak reti makan sireh…)..
laki aku menang cabutan bertuah sijil simpanan premium lah!! hoho… dapek nombo tigablas bersama lima ratus org lain.. semua nombor tigablas jugak…
tak pueh ati aku… dapatlah sijil rege seratus hengget… kalau 500 tu untuk laki aku sorang, leh dapat 50 rebu cakap lu… ada pulak suh share-share…
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dey…..ronel mek donel, appa macam mau sebut nama seyya…
batik samma itu abe gapor layan seyya dgn abe andy seyya manyak bayekk….itu sabab seyya igt deyya sudah kenai samma seyya….
Seyya tada malu makan kambing kasi licin itu tulang
Seyya bawa itu tapai kasi bungkus triple deyya kata seyya bungkus dlm plestik , dey, itu daun getah manyak exotic, deyya suda rabun
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weh.. aku x pahang ar… cane minik muniandy leh muncul kat umah batik? batik enauns katne? apesai aku x tau haaaa??? ni yang rasa cam nak jadik hulk hoganah (ppn kena ada “ah” kat blkg)
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wei.. minnik muniandy tu masa mak dia peknen dulu ngidam sangat makan tempoyak… sib baik mai rumah aku bawak tapai… aku pung tak pahang…
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aku laaaaaagiiiiiiii tak pahang, walaupung aku selalu lalu kat pahang on the way nak balik na na na na na ganu kiterrrrr !!! weh ! gi kelaut wehhh!!!!
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ei minik andy.. tokeh pi rumah belian dapat tat telo, pi rumah mocik bling bling dapat rendang xpress, pi rumah aku taim pose boy dia kebas pisang sesisir… pi jumpa hang, bateri keta kong… apa punya suwei laa….
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laut kemende..? pantai timo banjir ahh…. aku belum puas makan tapai.. takmo ahh..
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gi kelaut nengok monsoong kap la…skarang ni kan winter kat ganu….
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wei wei.. mami jarum tu betui2 muniandy ar….. aritu dia gak sibuk2 nak mai sini kismas… da kita sibuk2 nak wat besday parti walaupun xdak besday sesapa, dia lak xmo mai…. marah dia.. marah dia…. grrrrrrr!!!
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haa, marah dia, marah dia…gigit tinga dia…ha, tarik rambut dia ha ha…
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yewww olls ni naper haaa? dok rekemeng-rekemeng aweks kat tunang iiii??? menchi tawww!!.. dah la abg kupi dok berguru ngan tok dheka kat depan tu..menchii menchii menchiiiii…
abg kupi.. yeww jgn cureng taww..i lap u sooo much yeww knoww!!walaupun lobang idung abg kupi sama kaler muniandy tp bila abg kupi lalu belakang ii pasan tawwww…keensemn abg kupi tetap menjadi phujaan atikuuuu…
remember yer abg kupi.. don ever never foreber play fire in my heart..
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tak la.. mana ada tanya “tokeh” mana… itu org lain..
kita takkan semudah itu nak menyebabkan terselak kain sendiri..
eh betul la tak pernah selak kain.. kain org lain la hehehe.. kain sendiri memang la kan hehehe…
baik punya cover hehehe..
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wei wei wei.. awat hampa mai tarik sanggui mami ni ha?? mami buat mahei ni kat saloon kak esah!! cuba habaq mai apa masalah masalodeh hampa ni? bilanya mami janji nk pi kolompo tu ha?? dari mami pi sana baiyek mami top up gelang maeh mami kasi up lagi sampai siku..
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